About

I started this blog to help young guys in their 20’s get over their most recent breakups. Being a young college student in his 20’s has given me a bit of insight into how difficult this can be, and unfortunately I have found few resources online that were actually legit and not chocked full of b.s. that gave guys actual real-world advice to help them through being broken up with or to help them through a breakup.

I have been broken up with more times than I can count, and it sucks. When I was in college my long-distance girlfriend broke up with me over the phone unexpectedly one day and I had to rely on my own judgement as well as the advice from other friends and family on how to handle it and continue with a healthy lifestyle while not letting the distraction of a breakup get in the way of other important areas of my life. There was no breakup instruction guide, there was no breakup manual, there was no breakup handbook. There was pretty much me on my own and that was it.

So I experimented through trial-and-error what was the best thing to do and best way to live my life that would allow me to move forward through my various relationships that didn’t work out or seemed to wither away. I found the best routines to live my life through on a day-to-day basis. I found the best diet and workout that worked for me. I eventually found the best balance for social life that worked for me, and eventually was on to bigger and better things, and basically got it down to an exact science. Don’t get me wrong, it’s not fun to have a relationship end with anybody, but I was able to create an effective process for myself over time. I practically created a step-by-step process to get over a breakup for myself. Since then I have dated several new girls and found out that the world is a very big place full of different opportunities, and what seemed like something that was very upsetting to me was actually a positive growing experience.

What this blog is not about is a guide to getting your ex-girlfriend back or any of those B.S. “psychological tricks” to get your ex-girlfriend to magically want you back like you see on the internet. This blog is more about moving on from the process of getting broke up with, and becoming a smarter, healthier, more intelligent and better man because of it through different tricks, routines, and lifestyle changes. The blog is about being the best man you can be, and making the best out of a situation that sucks. Ultimately, this blog is about turning a positive into a negative and growing into a better man from what seems like a very negative experience. The purpose of this blog is to show you how an experience that seemed to be the end-of-the-world and worst thing possible was actually the best thing that ever happened to you. I hope you find it useful.